我很爱我爸,虽然他抽烟抽到很臭;
我很爱我爸,虽然他脾气很暴躁;
我很爱我爸,虽然他有时候不讲理;
我很爱我爸,虽然他曾今说:如果生个儿子就好了。
我很爱我爸,因为是他把我带到这世界上;
我很爱我爸,因为我知道,他是世界上唯一一个可以为了我牺牲自己的男人。
我很爱我爸,是他让我明白,不要抽烟,也不要自己的男人抽烟。
我很爱我爸,是他让我懂得,脾气暴躁不可爱,所以我要改正自己的坏毛病。
我很爱我爸,是他让我反省,要做一个通情达理的女人。
我很爱我爸,是因为他的“重男轻女”,我才会有今天的成就。
我很爱我爸,他给了我一面镜子,让我看到自己的不足;
我非常非常爱我爸,他用自己的长处与不足教导了我,怎样的男人才能做一个好丈夫,好爸爸。
这些话,我还不能当面说给爸爸听;但是这些话,我天天说给自己听。
I’d like to share an article with you all:
When we are faced with a crisis or struggle we often despair.
But it’s in this struggle that the best opportunities emerge. If we’re keeping our eyes open.
A crisis is an opportunity to change grow learn reflect and become better. It’s where we discover who we are and how we can find a new way we couldn’t have imagined before the crisis presented itself. It allows us to practice patience and acceptance and find renewed hope — which is the most beautiful thing.
When I’ve lost my job it was an opportunity for reinvention and to strike out on my own.
When I’ve lost a family member to the unrelenting grip of death it was an opportunity to reflect on that loved one’s wonderful life and for our family to come together in a way never possible before.
When I failed at work I learned to improve and grow better.
When I injured myself I learned patience and new ways to be healthy.
When my children throw tantrums they are teaching me more patience and the power of raw emotions and the wonder of childhood and what happens when you lose perspective.
When my wife and I had arguments it was an opportunity to learn more about each other and grow closer and become better at finding common ground.
When I moved and missed my family on Guam terribly it was an opportunity to learn introspection and self-sufficiency and grow closer to family here in the States.
When I daily face the terror of the void staring at me face to face it is my chance to push back and assert my will and imprint my soul upon this malleable world.
And that my friends is beauty. It is the finding of renewed hope and growth when all else seems bleak and lost.
In the struggle is the possible if we dare to look.
Finding Light in each situation, appreciate and give gratitude to all things in life, for indeed, everything in life is either a Blessing, or a Blessing in Disguise.
I hope you enjoy the article. 